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Three Critical Keys to Telling Your Personal Story

I was asked recently on a podcast about “3 Keys to Telling Your Story Well.” The podcast focused on personal stories, and how sharing them can be a powerful experience, whether you’re sharing a recovery story, sharing about your faith, or simply trying to inspire someone. In a world of identity politics, polarization, and where “truth” has been discarded, the one thing people can’t argue with is your personal story. But so many of us are simply terrible at telling our story, and when I answered the question, I brought up 3 unusual keys that most people don’t think about:

1) Be self-aware. We have to start with an accurate understanding of who we are: our talents, gifts, and abilities. We’ll never tell the right story if we’re living under false pretenses. In my experience, few people are truly self aware, and even fewer make an effort. For your story to resonate with people, it needs to be truthful and accurate.

2) Keep it short. I’m a big believer that you don’t just need an elevator pitch for a project or movie you’re working on, you also need an elevator pitch about your life. If you had 3-5 minutes with someone who could take you to the next level, or could significantly help your career or calling, what would you say? Have you thought about it? Most of us would just ramble on and on, and bore him or her to death. Learn to articulate your life and your dream clearly, and make it short, and too the point. As an opera singer famously said, “Make sure you stop singing before the audience has stopped listening.”

3) Practice. A well told story rarely happens on the spot. Think about your story, write it down if necessary, and practice, practice, practice. Get by yourself in a bedroom, office, or backyard and go over it. Your goal isn’t to fake it or make it sound rehearsed. Your goal is to make it compelling. Don’t waste words. Make sure it works.

You never know when you’ll have the opportunity to share your story with one or more people. That’s why now is the time to get it right, so when the time comes, it will have a powerful impact.

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  1. I agree many do not know what their gifts are or how they are suppose to work. I think many church leaders are recognizing this and are beginning to teach on this important subject.

    Guideposts has a creative writing class they teach to help people tell their story. It does cost $25.00 but it only takes some people about two hours to complete. If nothing else it will help people to zero in on the important elements of their story that they might need to share. And hey, maybe they will be able to send it to Guideposts and get published!

    If anyone is interested in this class just log on to Guideposts Website and look for teh Creative Writing Class button.

  2. Hello Phil. I read your article thinking about something that has been happening to me. I want to give a twist to the way the stories of the people who are going to be baptized are told. We often record a video prior to the christening and have been thinking of ways to make that story more relevant and captivating, but the hard work is at the time of doing the interview to achieve the best story that can be told. What you write helps me a lot. Thank you!

  3. Hello Phil. I read your article thinking about something that has been happening to me. I want to give a twist to the way the stories of the people who are going to be baptized are told. We often record a video prior to the christening and have been thinking of ways to make that story more relevant and captivating, but the hard work is at the time of doing the interview to achieve the best story that can be told. What you write helps me a lot. Thank you!

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