In this fallen and broken world, something bad is going to happen. Count on it. The question is – how will you deal with it? Some people get fired. Others lose a loved one. For some, it’s a project that doesn’t happen, or a dream that’s shattered. My wife Kathleen and I just remodeled our kitchen. I know the old saying that if your marriage can withstand a kitchen remodel, it can withstand anything. But believe me, there were moments I was ready to either sue the contractor or jump off a cliff. Dealing with that disaster taught me a lot about navigating bad things. Certainly a kitchen remodel isn’t anything compared to bigger issues like losing a job or a loved one – but the point is clear: Nobody lives a life without obstacles, frustrations, and loss.
So what do you do?
1. Be ready. Bad things will happen. Repeat. Bad things will happen. Don’t be caught by surprise.
2. Know your priorities. In the bigger picture, some bad things matter, and others don’t. Know the difference.
3. Be connected. People who experience bad things alone always struggle more than people with networks. Decide who to call and know who you can share bad things with. Make sure you surround yourself with people who care.
4. Learn. Grow. Get a bigger perspective. The more you know, the less bad things impact your life.
Bad things happen. But good can come out of it. Learn how to make that happen.
I would love to know how bad things impacted your life and how your overcame that impact…